The Anxiety Is Real
Let's not pretend this is irrational worry. Artificial intelligence is advancing rapidly. Jobs that seemed secure are now uncertain. Skills that took years to develop might become less valuable. The future feels genuinely unclear.
You might be:
- A writer watching AI generate text
- A designer seeing AI create images
- A programmer encountering AI that writes code
- A professional in any field wondering what's next
The anxiety is appropriate. Change is coming. How much and how fast remains uncertain, but pretending nothing is happening isn't wisdom - it's denial.
The question isn't whether to feel concern. The question is: What do you do with it?
The Stoic Framework
The Stoics lived through their own versions of disruption - political upheaval, economic instability, social transformation. Their framework applies to technological change too.
Step 1: Apply the Dichotomy of Control
Start where the Stoics always start: What's in your control? What isn't?
- The pace of AI development
- Whether your company adopts new technology
- What skills the market values in five years
- Whether your job exists in its current form
- How society responds to automation
- Policy decisions about AI
- How you spend your time now
- What skills you develop
- How you adapt to new tools
- Your attitude toward change
- Whether you take action or freeze
- How you treat yourself through the transition
The first list is what generates anxiety. The second list is where your power lives.
This doesn't make the first list irrelevant. It makes it not your domain. Worrying about AI development you can't influence wastes energy you could spend on adaptation you can influence.
Step 2: Question Your Impressions
The Stoics taught that our judgments about events cause more suffering than events themselves. With AI anxiety, check your assumptions:
This isn't toxic positivity. It's accuracy. Your fears might be exaggerated or might not - but examining them helps you respond to reality rather than worst-case imagination.
Step 3: Focus on What's Timeless
Some skills have survived every technological revolution:
The Stoics would call these virtues. They don't depend on any particular technology or economic arrangement. They're valuable in any world.
Practical Responses
Philosophy without action is incomplete. Here's what the Stoic framework suggests you actually do:
Learn the Tools
The anxiety often comes from the unknown. Learn what AI can actually do. Experiment with it. The mystique dissolves when you engage directly.
Many people fearing AI haven't seriously tried using it. They're responding to headlines, not reality. Reality is more nuanced - AI is powerful in some areas, limited in others, and constantly changing.
Understanding the tools reduces fear and increases capability. You might find ways to use AI to enhance your work rather than be replaced by it.
Develop Complementary Skills
Instead of competing with AI at what it does best, develop what it does poorly:
- Creative direction (AI generates; you decide what's good)
- Strategic thinking (AI processes; you determine goals)
- Emotional intelligence (AI lacks genuine understanding of human experience)
- Physical presence (AI isn't embodied in your community)
- Ethical judgment (AI doesn't actually know right from wrong)
These aren't fallback positions. They're high-value capabilities that become more important as routine tasks get automated.
Build Resilience
Financial resilience: Reduce expenses. Build savings. Decrease dependence on any single income source. This isn't pessimism - it's freedom. Whatever happens, you have runway.
Skill resilience: Diversify what you can do. Don't bet everything on one capability. The person with multiple skills has options.
Psychological resilience: This is the Stoic specialty. Develop the capacity to handle disruption without collapsing. Practice discomfort now so you can handle it later.
Take Action, Any Action
Anxiety thrives on paralysis. You imagine disasters and then freeze, which makes you less prepared for whatever actually comes.
The Stoic remedy: action. Even small action. Learning something. Building something. Connecting with someone. Moving forward in any direction.
Action breaks the anxiety spiral. It creates agency. It generates information about what works. Doing almost anything is better than catastrophizing endlessly.
The Stoic Mindset
Beyond specific actions, there's a way of relating to technological change that the Stoics model:
Accept Uncertainty
The future is genuinely uncertain. This isn't a bug - it's the nature of reality. You've never known what the future holds. You've always navigated uncertainty. This is just more of the same.
Marcus Aurelius:
"Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present."
You don't have to know what's coming to prepare for it. You prepare by developing capabilities that work across many possible futures.
Remember Mortality
The Stoics practiced memento mori - remembering death. This provides perspective on AI anxiety.
Yes, your career might be disrupted. But also: You're going to die. Everyone you love is going to die. The human story will eventually end. In this context, is career disruption really the catastrophe it feels like?
This isn't dismissive. It's calibrating. AI anxiety often operates as if career success is the ultimate value. It isn't. Character, relationships, how you spend your limited time - these matter more.
Find Opportunity
The Stoics saw every difficulty as potential material:
"The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way." - Marcus Aurelius
Technological disruption creates opportunity alongside threat. New tools enable new possibilities. Changing markets create new needs. People who adapt early gain advantages.
This doesn't mean disruption is good. It means disruption is usable. Can you find the opportunity in what's changing?
What Actually Matters
Here's the deeper question AI anxiety surfaces: What do you actually value?
If your primary value is job security, you'll be anxious - because job security was always an illusion. Jobs have always changed. Careers have always been disrupted.
If your primary value is being the best at a specific technical skill, you'll be anxious - because skills become obsolete. They always have.
But if your primary values are:
- Continuous learning and growth
- Contributing meaningfully to others
- Living according to your principles
- Developing character and wisdom
- Building genuine relationships
Then AI anxiety becomes manageable. These things are always within your power. They don't depend on any particular technology or economic arrangement.
The Stoics would say: Examine what you're really afraid of losing. If it's external - status, specific job, income level - that was never secure anyway. If it's internal - meaning, contribution, self-respect - no technology can take that.
For Right Now
If you're feeling AI anxiety today, here's a sequence:
1. Acknowledge the feeling. Anxiety is information. Don't suppress it.
2. Apply the dichotomy. What can you actually control? Focus there.
3. Question catastrophic thinking. Is the worst case certain? Probably not.
4. Take one action. Learn something. Build something. Connect with someone.
5. Develop timeless capabilities. What will matter regardless of technology?
6. Maintain perspective. Career disruption is real but not ultimate.
7. Live well today. Whatever happens in five years, today is for living.
The future will arrive. You'll face it with whatever capabilities and character you've developed between now and then. The only question is: What are you building?
"It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a lot of it." - Seneca
Time spent anxious about AI you can't control is time not spent on development you can control.
Choose wisely.
- [The Dichotomy of Control]
- [When Everything Feels Out of Control]
- [Start Here: Your First Week of Stoic Practice]